Say Good After “But”

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I was watching this reality show on tv and noticed a sentence uttered by a particular contestant:

“I have strengths but I also have many weaknesses.”

This got me thinking: Is the way we choose to say our weaknesses a reflection of our view on the classic “Is the glass half full or empty” question? It would have been better for the contestant to say it the other way:

“I have some weaknesses but I have strengths too.”

Or take it another level:

“I have weaknesses but I don’t let them lead me. My strengths are my compass”

Whether it be in a job interview or self-talk, try your best to end off positively always. It’s more pleasing to your audience’s ears, and more calming to your heart.

July 31st, 2008 - Posted in Character, Mindset, Presentation | |

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